They are not the advisors who bought you a "free' lunch or invited you to attend a "free", no strings attached seminar. They are not the advisors who buy free drinks at the bar or have the lowest handicaps at a local country club. And, they are not the advisors who are members of social clubs or churches so they can meet you.
Except for playing good golf, these popular tactics are used by lower quality, sales reps. Higher quality financial advisors do not resort to these deceptive tactics for two reasons:
Do yourself a favor. The next time you select a financial advisor pick the quiet, introspective professional over the flashy, high octane, self-proclaimed investment guru. You will have a lot more money later if you select advisors based on a careful review of their:
You have to minimize the impact of advisor personalities and sales skills. They have nothing to do with investment expertise and high ethical standards. The victims of the Bernie Madoff and Allen Stanford scams would have a lot more money if they followed this simple rule. The most dangerous advisors have great personalities and hidden agendas that are very different than yours.